4.52 our score

The Good

- Quick and easy signup
- Free basic membership
- Lots of features for Silver and Gold members
- 100% hookup guarantee

The Bad

- Onsite content could be too explicit for prudes
- Basic search could use more filters

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This adult dating site has been around for a while now, and building up quite the profile for itself! It’s always been great for a fast hookup, has amazing members, and offers so much for such a little price. Recently, it has undergone a makeover that makes it easier to use and has been attracting more member than ever before. So if you were ever skeptical before, there’s no reason to be anymore!


Just in case you’ve never heard of it, XXXConnect.com is an adult dating site that focuses entirely on men and women looking for casual sex and/or discreet encounters. But one of the most interesting things about XXXConnect‘s is its approach to the problem of excess men on adult dating sites. They only allow as many men to sign up per day as women sign up! That way, there will never be more men than women on the site. Personally, I think this is an interesting and novel solution to a problem that many adult dating sites face.



Layout & Design


The signup process is painless. Unlike eHarmony‘s 400+ questions, XXXConnect.com only asks new members the following few questions in order to sign up:

  • • Who you are (options being Man, Woman, Couple, or Transsexual)
  • • Your date-of-birth
  • • Your ideal hook up location (city, state/province, country)
  • • Your sexual preferences



The layout of the site is in no way a challenge to master. From your profiles’ homepage, you’ll see all the different features available to you laid out in a easily navigable format. XXXConnect.com utilizes a picture-based design – so you won’t have read endlessly long and needlessly self-aggrandizing written profiles. I liked this aspect of the design a lot because, in all fairness, the people who’ve signed up for the site aren’t looking for a “until death do us part” relationship, they’re looking for “until sunrise do us part” and most of that decision making doesn’t get any help form the inclusions of words.




XXXConnect follows a similar structure to their features as other sites, with more features being ‘unlocked’ by switching from a free basic membership to a paid Silver or Gold membership. The table below shows the rough-break down of the features offered by XXXConnect:

Basic MembershipSilver MembershipGold Membership
• Basic searches

• Upload pictures and videos to your profile

• Send other membership invitations to meet offline
Access to all basic membership features

• Ability to create and maintain a friends list

• Access to dozens of forums and chat rooms

• Complete advanced searches

• Search results priority over basic members
Access to all basic and silver membership features

• Complete advanced searches

• Access to dozens of forums and chat rooms

• Search priority over basic and silver-level members

• Access to free daily hardcore pornography

The differences between the features available to basic members and Silver/Gold members is staggering. For example, merely having the ability to jump into a forum conversation on hookup techniques makes a lot of your work vanish as you can avoid making the mistakes and share in the successes of those that have been on the site for some time.


In addition, Silver and Gold members also have their profiles ranked higher in searches, so let’s say that I’m a Silver member and you’re a Gold member with a nearly identical profile, you will show up higher in the results than I will every time simply due to your membership. It’s a great way to ensure results. As a person doing the searching, you’ll notice a difference between the paid and free memberships as well. Silver and Gold members are given a few more search options (Languages spoken, ethnicity, filter out those without profile pictures, etc.). Regardless of whether you’re doing a basic or advanced search, though, you’ll be content with XXXConnect‘s powerful search engine.


The final few features I’d like to share are the “Who’s Viewed Me” and “Active Within”, or “last online”, features. A lot of time on dating sites, the difference between a successful hookup and a night alone is showing up. With these features, XXXConnect.com allows you to view those who have expressed an explicit interest in you and those who are active members within the community. Chances are good that you can use these two features to great advantage when selecting who to contact.


The Good


The highest point for XXXConnect was how many members it had, and how many connections I made in a very short amount of time. I was able to set up a meeting with a sweet, young fox very quickly. I’ve had plenty of “dates” since then, but that first one was what made me really believe in this site! Her name was Samantha. We decided to meet up at a bar right near my place. I was worried she might have misrepresented her hotness on her profile, but I was presently surprised to find her even hotter! And I mean, I guess I’m not a bad looking guy, but I’m very average – this girl should have been way out of my league. But she was so personable, and very fun to be around. And, of course, a demon in the bedroom! We hooked up a few more times after that too, but there’s so many hot, willing babes on the site that neither of us ending up just sticking with the other. I still use the site now, and with the smallest amount of effort, I can get laid any day of the week!

And all this for a price you can’t beat!

Basic MembershipSilver MembershipGold Membership
Three Day TrialFREE$1.95$1.95
One Month MembershipFREE$29.95/Month$34.95/Month
Three Month MembershipFREE$19.98/Month$23.32/Month
One Year MembershipFREEN/A$12.50/Month

As you can see above, XXXConnect gives you a number of rates for different membership subscriptions. This should allow you to get the absolute most bang for your buck at a price that is essentially equivalent to every other online dating site with paying members. If the price seems a tad too steep for you, don’t worry at all as XXXConnect as a 100% hookup guarantee. If you haven’t had a casual encounter or offline hookup in 100 days, you get your next 100 days free! It’s a great little insurance policy to tuck into your back pocket


The Bad


I’ll start off by saying this – if you’re not okay with an abundance of nudity and explicit sexuality, XXXConnect.com will be great for someone else! Complaining and whining about how a site with “XXX” in the URL has strong sexual content seems to miss the point entirely. For the purposes of its members, having less sexuality on the sites wouldn’t remove people’s inhibitions and it’d probably result in less hookup successes for everybody.




All in all, XXXConnect.com is a great, new site for swinging singles and copulating couples to meet each other and line up offline meetings. It has useful features available at a great price. If you’re at all interested in hooking up with someone around you, XXXConnect.com is an ideal place to start!

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